This is not a poem. This is my very honest opinion. This is what I know about love. Love is a decision. That thing you decide to do for the gain of the other. For the good and well being of that who you are attached.
Think about your mother. She bagged you for nine months . And if she didn't decide to do that,then she would have flashed you. She decided to have you because she loved what she had in her. She wanted it to have a life,gain and seize what it offers. And it's because she already knows what life offers so she brings you in it that you may enjoy it. She loved you even before she saw you . Now that's love from your mama.
Then after she decided to drop you onto this world,your dad takes over. But before he does that,he has to make decisions too. If it isn't for love,he could have decided otherwise. But he decided to take you in and cater for. Knowing that this life and all the good in it you must enjoy. He allows you to it by making a decision,out of love,to cater for you till you stand on your own. In between,they make decisions for you because they know what is good for you and want you to grab it. But mostly,we miss out this part.
When you grow outta your skin,then you want another personality in your life. So you get a lover. You take them in and accept them because you liked them and now you love them. You made all this decisions because you love them. You wanted to make them happy in any way you can. When you love them,even when temptations befall you,your decisions influence your actions. You won't cheat on them when someone tries to get you from them. Why?? Because love is a decision. And you decide to stay true to your lover because you love them. You don't have them to dog you around because they are aware you will make the right decisions for their sake. And then you marry each other,and the cycle starts again.
I would go on but that is enough for now.
Mseganni.
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